We’re always constantly comparing ourselves to
other people, whether it is celebrities, friends or people around us.
Confidence is what makes us look and feel our best. I’m in absolute no state of
mind of being confident. It’s not exactly easy. It takes a lot of determination
and willpower. I thought writing this blog post would remind me and hopefully
remind whoever is reading this a guide to feeling confident.
The number 1 rule when it comes to feeling
confident is to respect yourself. Accepting who you are and loving the
body you were born with. It’s not easy especially being in this society. It’s
important to love ourselves before we love anyone else. Don’t waste time on
people who don’t make you feel good about yourself!
Surround yourself with good and happy people. True
friends are the ones who still love you on your worst days. They’re the ones
that aren’t going to care if you have no make-up on, or if your hair is messy.
It’s important to feel safe around the ones who love you.
Do what makes you happy. There’s nothing better
than feeling happy whilst doing something you love. Do the things you love to
do, don’t do what other people want you to do.
Be you. It’s so important to be yourself. If your
not, it’s very easy to tell. You don’t want to be hiding from the world. The
world has lots of things, and it only has one of you!
Be kind to yourself. Everyone makes mistakes and no
one is perfect. Forgiving yourself is just as important as forgiving those
around you. You need to live in the moment not the past. It’s good to look back
on things that make you happy but do you really want to look back and think how
nasty you were to yourself?
Stop comparing yourself to others! I know we get
told this all the time, and I still do it. It’s very important to accept
yourself. Know that even celebrities have their bad days. We don’t see it but
it’s true. You’re the one that has your own beautiful features, no one else but
YOU. Too many days are wasted comparing ourselves to others, wishing to be something we aren't.
SMILE! I know how hard it can be to smile on your
worst days. But a cheeky grin can make others around you feel comfortable.
You’d be surprised on how even the smallest smiles can cheer up a social
situation.
It's hard, a little mind training will do the
trick!
Xo
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